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This Is Your Mother

A Memoir

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"A beautiful story about an extraordinary mother's gift of love and hope." —Jeannette Walls, #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Glass Castle

From "a writer who's absolutely going places" (Roxane Gay), a remarkable, inventive debut memoir about a mother-daughter relationship across cycles of poverty, separation, and illness, exploring how we forge identity in the face of imminent loss.
When Erika Simpson was growing up, her mother loomed large, almost biblical in her life. A daughter of sharecroppers, middle child of ten, her origin story served as a Genesis. Her departure from home and a cheating husband, pursuing higher education along the way a kind of Exodus. Her rules for survival, often repeated like the Ten Commandments, guided Erika's own journey into adulthood. And the most important rule? Throughout her life, Sallie Carol preached the power of a testimony—which often proved useful in talking her way out of a bind with bill collectors.

But where does a mother's story end and a daughter's begin? In this brave, illuminating memoir, Erika offers a joint recollection of their lives as they navigate the realities of destitution often left undiscussed. Her mother's uncanny ability to endure Job-like trials and manifest New Testament–style miracles made her seem invincible. But while our parents may start out as gods in our lives, through her mother's final months and fifth battle with cancer, Erika captures the moment you realize they are just people.

This gorgeously rendered story of a mother's life through her daughter's eyes weaves together a dual timeline, pulling inspiration from both scripture and pop culture as Erika moves through grief to a place of clarity where she can see who she is without her mom—and because of her.
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      March 1, 2025
      A debut memoirist explores her relationship with the powerful but thwarted mother who dominated her life. Simpson's mother, Sallie, was a born survivor. The sickly daughter of sharecropper parents, she rose above her circumstances through education and a teaching career she paused for motherhood. By the time Simpson was born, Sallie had been diagnosed with a brain tumor and become a divorced single mother of two. With sensitivity and uncompromising candor, the author tells the story of how her mother struggled to raise her children while coping with ovarian, breast, and blood/spinal cancer. Each new diagnosis brought "an endless loop of psychological torture [that taunted her] family to guess when she [would] go." Illness also made it difficult for Sallie to keep a job and forced her and her daughters to "shift...from apartments to hotels." Her mother's faith in God and belief in miracles, coupled with the exceptional street-hustling skills that Simpson calls "reverse Robin Hooding"--"in which you challenge the poor to give to the poor if they're working for the rich"--helped keep the family minimally fed and sheltered during hard times. Sallie's tenacity became the backbone of the "scriptures" of survival that she handed down to Simpson. Her own quest for freedom from the American "underbelly" took her down paths where race, poverty, and Sallie's continued spiral into destitution threatened the success she ultimately earned. As it examines entangled family dynamics rooted in faith and loyalty, this poignant memoir reveals the lifelong impact, for good and for ill, of the ever-powerful mother-daughter bond. A searingly honest book about surviving America at the thorny intersection of race, class, and gender.

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