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The Good Shufu

Finding Love, Self, and Home on the Far Side of the World

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The brave, wry, irresistible journey of a fiercely independent American woman who finds everything she ever wanted in the most unexpected place.
 
Shufu: in Japanese it means “housewife,” and it’s the last thing Tracy Slater ever thought she’d call herself. A writer and academic, Tracy carefully constructed a life she loved in her hometown of Boston. But everything is upended when she falls head over heels for the most unlikely mate: a Japanese salary-man based in Osaka, who barely speaks her language.
Deciding to give fate a chance, Tracy builds a life and marriage in Japan, a country both fascinating and profoundly alienating, where she can read neither the language nor the simplest social cues. There, she finds herself dependent on her husband to order her food, answer the phone, and give her money. When she begins to learn Japanese, she discovers the language is inextricably connected with nuanced cultural dynamics that would take a lifetime to absorb. Finally, when Tracy longs for a child, she ends up trying to grow her family with a Petri dish and an army of doctors with whom she can barely communicate.
And yet, despite the challenges, Tracy is sustained by her husband’s quiet love, and being with him feels more like “home” than anything ever has. Steadily and surely, she fills her life in Japan with meaningful connections, a loving marriage, and wonder at her adopted country, a place that will never feel natural or easy, but which provides endless opportunities for growth, insight, and sometimes humor. A memoir of travel and romance, The Good Shufu is a celebration of the life least expected: messy, overwhelming, and deeply enriching in its complications.
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    • Kirkus

      May 1, 2015
      A writer goes to the far side of the world for work and finds a home. In May 2004, Slater parlayed a position teaching writing to graduate students in Boston into a job teaching English as a second language in Kobe, Japan. She began working as a member of the faculty of the East Asia Executive MBA Program, and any hard-earned confidence she had gained working in Boston quickly vanished. Shortly into the program, Slater was asked to talk to students more quietly and be more demure, "like women here are supposed to." Despite this-or perhaps because of it-the author found a kindred spirit, of sorts, in a student named Toru. They fell quickly and deeply in love, a storybook-romance sort of love, in which they realized immediately that they were meant to meet and be together, despite the odds of it happening. The relationship grew, carried forward by their learning to communicate with each other. Then they were split apart when Toru left to be with his mother, who was critically injured by a hit-and-run driver and died a short time later. The book truly finds its legs when the couple reunites in America, as Slater chronicles how she began to acclimate to Toru's country. Her eyes opened to the many the things she'd become inured to in America and the beauty of simple differences in Japan. With her mother cautioning her against it, her own roots in Massachusetts, and her heart pulling her across the globe, Slater had to decide whether-and how-to try and make it work. The author certainly makes the telling of it work. A heartfelt and moving tale, coupling insights into two remarkably different cultures with a love story that, as much as any true love story can, delivers a happy ending.

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